The “Happy Thoughts” Experiment – Day 9 (+ Off Topic: The loss of Toy Stores)

Let´s see, let´s see- I think I am doing fairly well myself with this experiment.

I find myself thinking more positive and I even enjoy blogging more too. Let´s see how I´ll feel, once this ends.
But today I shall share thanks for the Night Elven spotlight in Battle for Azeroth. The other side of me watched it differently up until now, but I want to try and be grateful of all the Night Elven themed things now. Such as the transmog from the Darkshore Warfront. I do cherish that.

I am confused though, how to obtain the other “tints” of it than the standard version, do you know?

Anyway 🙂 I just got a few pieces so far, but I had to create a transmog fitting for what I have obtained so far.

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Oh, and Eppu asked for my Reindeer transmog, so here that is too 🙂

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And then, allow me to go Off Topic for just a bit.

It´s something I rarely do. But I need an outlet for this, and so, here we go. You can just skip this part, if you rather stick to WoW related topics 🙂

But if not, I would love to read a tale from your childhood.

 


 

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Toys ‘R’ Us and Fætter BR – the Toy Stores of Denmark closing their doors

 

Just yesterday, the news could inform us, that the toy stores of our country will no longer be around. From tomorrow.

In late November, it was announced, that they went under reconstruction and had six months to turn things around, but because of a dissapointing Christmas sale, the decision has been made to close it all together already. (Everyone who needs to exchange gifts must do so right away, and gift certificates etc. are now worthless.)

I am so very sad about this. More than I thought I would be. Sure, we do have a few toy stores here and there, which are all gems on their own, but there was nothing like a trip to Toys R Us with and for our son.

 

Breaking the news to our five year old boy left him in tears.

 

Then I followed.

These stores, in our city, have been more than just stores. It has been the chosen destination for him, since he could walk.

We have been blessed with a child, who never ever “begs” for things, when we are out, so I have had the luxury to enjoy these trips, just as much as he did, and it has given me an opportunity to see things through his eyes;

 

The magic he has felt, when gazing upon all the toys, he wanted to put on his wishing list.

The fun he had when trying out the trampoline and other activities inside.

The giggles we have shared, when we journeyed through the Halloween decorations/spooky playhouses that were set up in the stores.

The anticipation he had on the trips, where he had managed to save up just enough to buy that one sweet toy, he had wanted for ages.

 

Today, we payed it one last visit. He was allowed to spend all his savings for whatever toy he wanted, as a memory. He chose a very cool lightsaber.

I get it, this is just the internet claiming its next victim. And announcing the reconstruction right before Christmas surely did not help build trust amongst the customers either.

I made an effort and purchased all the toys we needed from the stores instead of online. But I understand, I belong to a minority.

Parents hand out tablets/electonic devices to their children so early now as well, that the interest for toys takes a backseat, unless we as parents guide them in the other direction.

I can still recall a memory from my childhood, where my dad gave me a gift, a board game, called Ghost Castle, and it was such a big thing for me, because I rarely got to go to the store and even more rarely did I get something. This was an early Christmas gift.

I used to work in Toys R Us as well, in two cities, one where I was just part time and another where I worked full time and had responsibility for my own “sections”.

Now, as a mother, I visited several times a month with our son.

The brand “Fætter BR” is Danish, and these stores have been around since 1950. Toys R Us arrived later, and where I know the end of these stores happened earlier in the US, we all remained hopeful in Denmark, that it wouldn´t happen here, since the way they were being run was different. (Sorry language barrier, it´s hard for me to explain in details and techy techy.)

I cannot imagine a world without these stores. A chapter ends tomorrow in the saddest way possible.


 

So to all the people that made the adventures and the magic we and our son has had through the last years possible;

I say thank you.

 

Thank you for always serving us with a smile, even when we bought nothing.

Thank you for the extra mile you went with all the decorations during holidays such as Halloween and Christmas.

Thank you for all the memories you allowed us to make within the magic of your stores.

 

All the best wishes and hopes for those, around 3000 people, who have suddenly lost their job.

I hope for better times ahead for the concept of toy stores, and that we in the future will see some kind of rebuild. It can never be as it once was, but I am sure we can settle for just a fraction of it.

There was nothing like a visit to Toys R Us and Fætter BR.

Thank you.

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Do you have any fond memories of visiting the toy store in your town, from when you were a child? You are so welcome to share them here.

12 thoughts on “The “Happy Thoughts” Experiment – Day 9 (+ Off Topic: The loss of Toy Stores)

  1. Ah, we lost our Toys R Us just a few months back and what a sad day it was. We had our little one in 2016 and we visited almost weekly for diapers, supplies, or maybe just a new toy for our bundle of joy. We really do miss it!

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    1. Aw yes I imagine that. Here they do not sell diapers even, so you must have been there more often than us. What a sad day indeed. Where do you go to shop for those things now?

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  2. I was thinking earlier today that I should run over to Toys R Us to get something goofy to go with the presents for my daughter’s birthday, only to remember that the stores all closed here back in June. My daughter is turning 17, so she won’t miss it. She lucked out though as they lasted through her childhood.

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    1. Aw yeah, I recall them closing in your country too. I think it will take a while before we no longer think the “Oh hey let’s go to…Oh, right”.

      What happened to the market for you, are there any other stores, that have expanded their toy sale now, or?

      I’m at least glad our son got to experience it. Though he is very sad now, it has given him and us great memories.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🙂

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  3. I don’t even remember visiting specialized toy stores, as a kid, but they must have existed.

    It’s sad they are going away. Online shopping takes over a lot, although there are also many new big stores here (no toy stores left afaik). I am not fond of shopping in general, but visiting toy store with one’s child was always a joy. Even when they tried to pressure me 😉

    Very sorry you and your son will miss out on this. 😦
    The last picture is pure gold. Gave me a big smile, and wish I had been there. Looks like a great visit to the toy store 😀

    Hugs ❤

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    1. It is very sad. 😦 I wish things were different.

      Aw I am glad the picture gave you a big smile. I love that picture now, I am so glad we took it.

      It would have been awesome if you had been there 🙂

      Hugs! Just what I needed ♥

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    1. Oh, awww I see. Thank you for sharing 🙂

      I just got reminded; We have this kind of Dungeons and Dragons kind of store/roleplay things. Our son loves that too. Maybe it´s time to visit that some more.

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